Swatiska graffiti reportedly found on Ironhorse Trail in Walnut Creek

Police received a report Thursday that several swatiskas and "words" had been spraypainted on a wall along the Ironhorse Trail near Las Lomas High School.

The report came in a little before 4 p.m., and the grafitti was just past the high school and near the support for the "overpass," presumably the pedestrian overpass the crosses South Broadway.

Perhaps it's time for some kids and teens in Walnut Creek to get lessons in history and in how some words and images have very painful associations in our culture.

That same afternoon, as I was waiting in the 7-Eleven parking lot on Oak Road to pick up my son from Walnut Creek Intermediate, I heard another student, a young white male, use the N-word to greet a friend, another white male student. You can read about the discussion that incident provoked on this post, "Hey N-----! A greeting between some Walnut Creek middle school boys."

I walked down the Ironhorse Trail this morning and looked for the grafitti, but didn't find it. The Walnut Creek police Daily Bulletin indicates that the police had referred the report to the East Bay Regional Parks District, which has jurisdiction over the trails. Perhaps the parks district got it cleaned up as quickly as possible.

Overheard: "Hey N-----!" A greeting between some Walnut Creek middle school boys

Picking up my son from school almost always proves to be an enlightening experience.

In the parking lot of 7-Eleven on Oak Road, one group of boys passed another, and a boy in one group said to a boy in the other, "Hey N----!" That's right, the N-word

The greeting was delivered in a friendly tone, no insult or hostility intended. The speaker was white, and so were the boy or boys he was addressing. So, it's not like this was the case of a white speaker saying something derogatory about the race of someone else. 

It was also clear that these boys didn't understood the significance of the word they were tossing around, that the N-word is pretty loaded in Western culture. As the Merriam-Webster Dictionary says, the N-word ranks as "perhaps the most offensive and inflammatory racial slur in English."

However, as the dictionary says, and as many of us know,the N-word's use "among blacks is not always intended or taken as offensive..." In the context of some segments of the African-American community, including the worlds of rap, hip-hop, and entertainment, the use of the word can be affectionite, familiar. However, it can be derisive, but acceptable to use. Example: In the HBO show The Wire, one Baltimore drug dealer would use the epithet when speaking with annoyance about another drug dealer who wasn't pulling his weight or is screwing him out of profits. The rapper Nas (pictured here at the Grammys) ignited a controversy when he announced that the name of his new 2008 album would be "Nigger." Jesse Jackson, Al Sharpton, and Fox News were not pleased, but many of Nas' entertainment colleagues came to his defense. Bottom line, the cultural acceptance for using the N-word exists--though it is controversial--and there are rules, though loosely defined, about when, how, and who can use this word. 

I don't think this cultural acceptance would extend to a  white Walnut Creek middle school student, although the kid was acting like it did. Offending someone was not his intention. Trying to look and sound cool, hip, street--that seemed to his the aim of him and his friends, at least one of whom was carrying a skateboard. 
Part of me was amused at the boy's misguided attempt to sound cool. Out of the mouths of 12-year-old white suburban boys.

But, another part of me thought, I hope some adult in his life has heard this word slip out of his mouth and given him a serious talk about why it's so massively uncool for him to use it.

I mentioned this incident to a co-worker, who, like me, grew up in Walnut Creek and attended local schools. Back when he was in middle school, he said, the massively uncool word that he and his buddies threw around at each other was "fag."

I'd say times have changed, but I think this f-word is still in play in 2010 amongst pre-adolescent and adolescent males.